Flyswatters Are Murder

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This blog is no longer active and I’m unfollowing just about everyone who’s not involved in my Hunger Games roleplay. That’s all I’ll be using this account for now. So don’t take it personally or anything. xD Sorry.

Anonymous asked: Same anon as before. You are so kind. Thank you for being patient with me. I see myself having sex with a male and I can imagine kissing both genders. I guess I like the idea of kissing a male more. I'm just not "turned on" by anything, ya know? I would like to marry a male, I think. I would like to try kissing a female, but I don't think I'd enjoy it as much. I don't think I'd enjoy kissing in general very much. Thoughts?

Hey, sorry this is so late! D: I typed up a mostly finished reply when I first got it but had to go before posting it, so I saved it in a word document and mistakenly thought that I had already sent it. I’m sorry, I hope you’re still checking this page!

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If you think you could be happy with a male, then don’t hesitate to date, kiss, marry, etc. a male just because you also sort of have feelings for females. It’s possible to have feelings for the same gender without actually being homosexual. It’s pretty normal, actually. But if you do like females, and that ends up being your preference, that’s fine too. C: You don’t have to fight it.

No offense, but right now it seems you’re going solely on thoughts. Experience can help as well. Don’t worry, I’m not saying go out and start randomly making out with and having sex with people of different genders! xD All I mean is that that’s kind of what middle school/high school dating is for (are you in middle school or high school?). Maybe if you get into dating a little (dating doesn’t even have to mean kissing or commitment; just getting to know someone) you could be able to tell what you like more. But don’t do anything you’re not comfortable with.

Finally, I emphasize again that you don’t have to stress. You might not know what you like now, but you’ll know once it matters. It’s fine to speculate, but you don’t need to make any decisions about your identity until you think you’re absolutely certain and it’s a decision you’re perfectly comfortable making. And it’s not a decision you can’t reverse or change either! It’s YOUR identity - if you decide you were wrong about what you thought before and you want to change it, that’s YOUR choice.

I wish you the best of luck in finding yourself. C: I hope whoever you end up being with, you’re happy with, and that you have a wonderful life. 8D Whoo!

Anonymous asked: Can sexual orientation change?

I’m not a scientist, so I can’t say for sure if the exact source of sexual orientation can change.

I don’t think you can choose to change your sexual orientation (although you could always choose to change your identity, I suppose).

But I think that maybe if you think your sexual orientation is “changing,” it could just be you discovering something that was always there.

Also, I read, I believe it was in my psychology textbook, that female sexuality is “more flexible” than male sexuality. I don’t think that means they just change sexual orientation all the time, but it could mean they’re more open to enjoying different sexual experiences which could include having sex with a female, even if that’s not their initial orientation. 

That’s just my take on it from what I’ve read, seen, and learned. Don’t take any of that as fact. 

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cyberbullying

constant hate messages on your facebook wall

horrible rumors being spread through text message

repeated death threats in your email inbox

not cyberbullying

someone on neopets called you a ninny